Some Personal Memories of Willard Jantzen
That evening Willard and the rest of the passengers (at least those that wanted to fly again) boarded another Northwest flight on which Northwest provided free drinks to everyone - "a champagne flight on which most everyone got drunk" as Willard remembered it. The drinks flowed freely and some well-lubed passengers recalled the slide had been more fun than a Disney ride. The captain was probably thinking that maybe the free drinks should end.
The next day the wedding ceremony proceeded as planned in Crosby. Later that day a reception and dance were held in Joan's home town of Trommald, Minnesota - a small mining town once entirely dependent upon jobs at the Pittsburgh Pacific company. Today the Trommald Bar and Silver Dollar dance hall where we danced that night are long gone as are the jobs with the mining company. Potholes on the deserted main street go unattended and grow larger and more numerous while the number of residents declines. But far more importantly, fifty-one years later Joan and I are still married and Willard and I remained lifelong friends.
Willard graduated from Valley City State College in 1968. He played football on the 1964 NDCAC championship team. He was chosen to the all-conference team in 1966. He was a fierce and rugged competitor on the football field - undoubtedly just as tough as his father "Red" Jantzen had been as a well-respected local boxer who went on to compete at the national Golden Gloves matches. Off the field Willard was a gentle soul who collected butterflies and rocks in his youth and postage stamps and coins all his life. He went on to coach and teach for twenty-five years at high schools in Graceville, Minnesota; Breckenridge, Minnesota; Crookston, Minnesota; Miami, Florida; Rugby, North Dakota; and finally Argusville, North Dakota. After he retired from teaching, Willard worked at and later managed the Bjornson Park Golf Course in Valley City.
Willard was not always the best student in high school, but he became a very good teacher and a great coach. He was an instinctively natural coach and always gave me encouragement and advice on my own quite lackluster basketball skills. Coach Don Dehne finally recognized that Willard was a pretty good basketball player and Willard became the starting forward instead of me. In just a couple games in the playoffs he scored more points than I had in my career. I cheered for Willard just as he had for me. Throughout the years of our friendship I learned more about life and myself from him than I did from any of my teachers in high school or college.
Willard went through a number of life's ups and downs, but never complained to me. Sixteen years ago he survived a bout of cancer. Prior to that and again after that he survived heart attacks. More than one doctor mentioned how genial Willard always was and noted that "whatever" was one of Willard's favorite words. I never met anyone who did not immediately like Willard.
Last year Willard suddenly lost his voice and was able to speak only in a whisper. He was diagnosed with small-cell lung cancer which had metastasized to other organs. He underwent state-of-the-art chemotherapy treatments which slowed and even reduced some of the tumors, but after a few months the progress stopped. His overall health was not good enough for continued chemotherapy treatments, but he hoped they could resume. He did not want to live out his remaining time in a nursing home.
In late February I visited Willard at Essentia Hospital in Fargo. I showed Willard the posting I had put on the blog about him. He smiled and raised his right hand with a thumbs up. I read the comments to him that people had posted and after each one he again smiled and raised his hand with a thumbs up. My thanks to those of you who posted a comment or sent him a note in the mail.
A few days after my visit Willard was moved from Essentia Hospital to CHI Mercy Hospital in Valley City for Swing Bed care (a type of skilled nursing care). Surprisingly he was assigned to the same room his wife Donna had been in for two months following her hip surgery late last year so he was quite familiar with the room and felt comfortable. Willard hoped and expected he would be able to go home in a week or two and possibly resume his chemotherapy. But after a week his condition grew worse and an ambulance took him back to Essentia in Fargo where he died on the morning of March 10, 2024.
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Below is my favorite photo of Willard. This was taken when his team was getting ready to play a game at the Orange Bowl Stadium.This is a picture from last summer.





Thanks for your comments Enno. I did not know all of what Will had accomplished. You, Dick and Will made up quite a team! I too thought Will had a bit more time and intended to get one of my watercolor cards off to him. But to my regret I didn’t move fast enough. I will always remember Will as a ‘gentle giant’ - not only in stature but in character! He was genuine, sincere, thoughtful, kind…
ReplyDeleteHi Enno. I'm very saddened by your news of our friend Willard's passing. Even tho he (and you) were 3 classes ahead of mine, I got to know Willard at our All 60s class reunions which Willard kindly helped to organize, and at the Dario drive-in where I was a car hop. Also, there was a momentous occasion one summer day in the 60s when Willard and one of his buddies took my BFF Julie McKay and I for a golf lesson, much to the objection of my sister Jeanie. Unfortunately, Willard's golf expertise did not rub off on Julie and me, and we couldn't even hit the ball to tee off. Willard must have shaken his head in disgust at our attempts. He may have expected me to show some promise at golf since both Jeanie and our younger Ron were excellent golfers and both won trophies. Ron even beat an older player, Chuck Haga, in a VC tournament when Ron was only 10! But a golfer I am not! Thx for posting your write-up about Willard's harrowing experience trying to get to your wedding!! I was reading with baited breath thru the entire piece. Willard was one of a kind! In sympathy, Bonnie Cink Ness, Class of 65
ReplyDeleteI'm very sorry to learn of Willard's passing. I so appreciated all the work he did for the various All 60's Reunions during which he kept track of the names and addresses of all of the classmates he could find for each of our 10 classes. His work formed the base from which the Class of 1961 worked to find a few more classmates and to take over the management of our class listing. He was so very easy to work with . . . .
ReplyDeleteThanks Enno, Will was always there to help. He will be missed. Soon we will be able to hold our reunions in a phone booth, if they still exist I received your previous message about Willard. I had good intentions to write a response but unfortunately some serious health situations in my family diverted my attention. Life is what happens when you are making other plans.
ReplyDeleteGood morning Enno. Donna called Byron this morning to inform him of Willard's passing. We were able to see Willard in VC on Thursday. He was alert and we had a good time reminiscing. We are so grateful for that time. Byron may call you later. We are traveling back from Illinois today. Mary Hill
ReplyDeleteThank you. Your Class of '62 posting of Will & classmates was great. Will meant so much to me.
ReplyDeleteI’ll always remember being a kid and Willard joking with me making me laugh! I forgot the story y’all would tell me about the Crash Landing Willard endured to get to the wedding! That’s a good friend! I’m grateful to have known him while he was here . Thank you for posting this. -Matthew Limvere
ReplyDeleteWillard was always a kind and loyal friend; advice was always given when asked, but never offered if not. I believe my first meeting with Will was when his dad, Red, brought him to work one day when he worked for my dad at either the Fulton Market or Zero Lockers (too many years for my tired memory to recall which); I remember running and playing around while they were working and both of us being told we'd hear about it later.... Fun while we were young!
ReplyDeleteMay he RIP and we extend our heartfelt condolences to Donna, another life-long friend.
Rick & Maureen Luessen
I‘m very sad have realize that Will has passed. Memories will stay. He was a very important person when came to live with all of you. I was only 16 years old when I became a new member of Dick‘s family. But you always need some good buddies for the wild life in Valley City. It was not really wild but great with warm hearts. Will was a part of this. I never had to walk to see everybody at Mom Walker‘s place! He had his dad‘s car.My memories will be with all of you at the ceremony. It was a good life of a good man. Donna, all the best for you. It is good to know you two had a warm and happy life.
ReplyDeleteBrigitte and Klaus
Enno, am sorry, but due to an illness, aka flu, Verna Triebold manstrom will not be attending the mini reunion.
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